I've been going out with him for 8 months & he lied to me about smoking 2 times in a row . Now Ed a totally different person but he still loves me . He wants to do because of family problems and he likes to forget. What should I do? I hate potheads .
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Got to agree with the always wise BellaSugar!
I have no problem with people that smoke pot. It's absurd that it's not legal - though I am too obsessed with running to do it myself. My main problem with pot smokers is that it changes the brain chemistry of people who do it often. They lose career drive and an ability to make emotional connections. This is not a quality I could have in a boyfriend, much less a husband.
It's strange you have stayed with him yet say it bothers you. But, if I were in your shoes, I would not choose to stay.
Well using weed is not the answer to the problem and it will not solve it after the effect of the weed the problem is still there. If he wants to forget for a while try joining a physical or any activity that has no memory associated with the family. Don't let him go back in using it again rather help him to solve his problems.