Before I got married, I told everything about my finance situation to my wife. She told that we are going to make our life together and these kind of nice stuff. I told her that u r raised in a rich family (and I am was not) , I told her that your family might have a different view but she accepted everything.
Unfortunately now that we r officially engaged(just for 2 months), everything has turned to a new stage. It seems that she forgot everything and she expects to much. She wants everything(fancy wedding, fancy clothes, jewelery and ...) and whenever I remind her of what she said, she would get mad (read crazy) and make my life like hell.
I just wanted us to stay friends but she insisted to take further steps(marriage).I had the chance to study outside Iran,but I stayed for her.I work from morning to night to earn more money.
But she sees nothing.
In Iran we have a stupid custom called (Mehrie) that forces grooms to set a number of gold coins for getting married and mine is 500 hundred coins that cost 10 times more than my whole life. And because of this I cant get a divorce.
Please advise.(Hearing u can really help) thanks