Before I got married, I told everything about my finance situation to my wife. She told that we are going to make our life together and these kind of nice stuff. I told her that u r raised in a rich family (and I am was not) , I told her that your family might have a different view but she accepted everything.
Unfortunately now that we r officially engaged(just for 2 months), everything has turned to a new stage. It seems that she forgot everything and she expects to much. She wants everything(fancy wedding, fancy clothes, jewelery and ...) and whenever I remind her of what she said, she would get mad (read crazy) and make my life like hell.
I just wanted us to stay friends but she insisted to take further steps(marriage).I had the chance to study outside Iran,but I stayed for her.I work from morning to night to earn more money.
But she sees nothing.
In Iran we have a stupid custom called (Mehrie) that forces grooms to set a number of gold coins for getting married and mine is 500 hundred coins that cost 10 times more than my whole life. And because of this I cant get a divorce.
Please advise.(Hearing u can really help) thanks
What should I do with a marriage like this? Please answer?
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seek professional help,
er however your question is rather hard to read, engaged howi cant understand if your married or still ever, it sounds awfully like the 'bridezilla' syndrome, well that is what i call it anyway basically its where they want every thing to be perfect for one of the more special moments in there life it should end after the wedding. then again i have no clue.... anyway stick with the first suggestion or if anyone else has a better answer use that
sorry i cant be more helpful.