My brother ALWAYS bullies my mom !! He's 25 btw and am 26 ..YES old enough to start a new family but still he is A BAD person and always shouts and fight with mom on the most trivial things .. I tried my best to stop him I even got into fights with him and no use !! Am hopeless now !! I feel like am gonna explode , he's stressing the whole family !! My father is away from us to work so no way i can talk to him about it and when he visits us my bro will lick his shoe and be so friendly O.o
Also i cant move out !! Bad time for me really !! So am stressed and want them to stop .. What should i do plz help me :( my mother is A REAL pushover and cant fight back and stop him :(
What should I do to stop being stressed ?
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- 3+ months ago by Aisha26
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- family, mom, person, brother, news, always, shout, old, bad
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well if your mom isn't going to stand up for her self no one can do it for her does he live at home if he does i would suggest that mom tell him to leave and find a different way to take care of his needs i would also tell him if he isn't liveing at home i would tell him to leave and come back when he can quit trying to bullie her she is gonna have to put her foot down and if he doesn't get that then the last thing you can really do is wait for your dad to come back and speak with him about what he is doing
tell him when he comes it will be worth it, he needs to know, other wise you are keeping secrets from him, plus he is the husband and the father he should be the man of house!
Try finding some consoling, to help with stress try working out because if you do it helps burn negative chemicals in your brain so you then feel refreshed mentally, the next step if your brother does not come to consoling, call the police especially if he assaults anyone in mentally or physically I am sure if your father does not believe you then he will believe the love of his life which is your mom. Just try not fighting fire with fire it only makes it worse, in fact pure the water before the fire ignites and kill him with kindness, so that way he has nothing to use against you if things go way out of hand go to court.
Well thanx for ur advice really !! To be honest we r not that kind of families that leave our home any time and live somewhere else !! Besides he've got no job in the meantime so it will be imposible .. I would be glad if he has so that he leave home and stay out longer :(
And yes i will consider talking to dad when he comes but every time i become soft and don't talk to him so he wont be bothered by our problems .. But still i will try .