My boyfriend confessed to me he smokes and he swear to me he won't smoke ever again for our relationship...that he don't want nothing to happen to our relationship so a few weeks pass already and he told me he smoke again and I got upset cause he told me he will stop for us so I guess he don't want to be with me no more ,, I was crying allot and I just lost my feelings for him and I dont want to break up with him cause maybe then I will start loving him again and it will be hard for me to get him back and like i just don't love him as much as I use to .sometimes I just think and I wanna break up with him but I'm scared that I will love him again and we ain't together no more,:(what should I do? Do I break up with him? Do I tell him I need sum time of my own? What do I do I need help?
What should I do?Should I break up with him?what do I do?
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- 3+ months ago by Rachel_Od...
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- break, smoke, boyfriend, again, relationship, relationships, break up
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Well, this is a hard one, give it a week, and if he smokes, I would break up with him. I know some people who break up with somebody and love them again. If you do, you must hold your ground and move on. Its for the best, if he's smoking that puts not only his health at risk but yours from second hand smoke.
Things don't always have to be about "what if". Make a decision on either you want to put your own life at risk or not! Take a break and if he realizes what he had then hell come. I know a couple of people that say they will never go back to their ex girlfriend or boyfriend but when they realize things they end up going back! Don't be scared to let things go, sometimes that's for the best!