i met this girl while she was still having a bf, then they broke up. Also, the relationship i was into was having problems so i took the advantage to break up with my girlfriend too. she was still receiving calls from her ex as well as me too. Then i discovered that she cheated on with with her ex but considered that she had not yet made up her mind to what she wanted. so i gave her some time untill i was convinced that its over with her ex. We then move in together. she constantly check my phone calls and complaints. i explain to her that there are girls i knew before and i dont deal with them anylonger and that they eventually will stop calling because i do not respond to their calls. she chats too much and before she refuse to give me her passwords but the previous boyfriend had all her passwords. one day she said she will give me all her passwords and even said she want a baby from me. i think this was the time her love for me reached the apex. i told her i dont even need the passwords i just want to trust her entirely and that she should be a good girl. Then things started changing after she saw a massage in my phone and cried. Then she said she will never check my phone anymore.
Weeks when by then she started taking excuses to go to her parents. Then she will say when she will be back but will get more excuses not to come back as promised. Then i realised that something was wrong and ask her to tell me if its over so i can move on. She said nothing was wrong and that i was the only man to her. She lied. she started feeling uncomfortable when i call her at night. Then that night came. i call her around 8 30 pm and while we were talking her phone went off for the whole night. I didnt sleep for a second because i could just immagine what was going on. the next day her phone came on by 10 am and i tried calling but she could not pick up the phone. I call her sister and she said she went with her grandmother to the hospital. she lied. I went to their home and the brother told me she never spent the night at home. I almost go crazy. The next day i called her to come over so we can talk. she was scared i will beat her but i told her i cant. She admitted cheating on me. She cried and ask me to forgive her. i lv her crazily.
What should I do? My girlfriend I met 10 months ago cheated on me but says she still love me?
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- 3+ months ago by lucia2012
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- girl, love, girlfriend, broke, relationship, problem, month, girls, relationships
Added 3+ months ago:
i really love this girl and feel like the sky is falling on me. After we talked, she promise never to hurt me again and never to cheat on me again. I planned to send her to a short course which she already register starting January. i do take care of her 3 year old daughter, pay her school every month. buy her clothes etc. just today i saw her diary where she wrote if i could buy her many clothes, shoes, a labtop and cavellas she will just close her eyes and heart for other men and love me only. I even promise to buy her a car buts its been almost two weeks since she went home and had not call me even once. I believe this relationship might never work but i cant get over my feelings. i stayed for a week without calling her but finally cracked and called. What really should i do?
Added 3+ months ago:
SHOULD I KEEP HER JUST FOR FUN WHILE THIS FEELING FADES?
IS XMAS NOW AND I KNOW I HAS TO SPEND ON CLOTHES, if i broke up now i will safe my money but what about the way i feel? HELP ME OUT. SHOULD I ACCEPT HER AND GIVE RULES TO FOLLOW? GET ALL HER PASSWORD? DEPRIVE HER FROM GOING HOME E, BUY ALL SHE WANTS? ETC
Responses (3)
My dear brother, do not be worried- love never fails. Her not callng u does not mean she doesnt love you. Show her your love by not gvng up! Do your best! Im tellng u, there is nothng as special as 4gvng and forgetng. If u realy, realy love her, u dnt look at her negatives. Instead, send her inspirational messeges to show how special u are. U never knw she might be gng through a difficult time. Be there for her in time of depression as wel as joy. One more thng- NEVER LAY A HAND ON HER. Always be knd & be patient. God bles U!