I like my best friend but I have a boyfriend and they r both best friends what should I do if I like my best friend I have liked my boyfriend ever since I meet him and when we started dating I started to like my best friend I have not kissed my boyfriend yet it would be my first kiss and I think since I haven't kissed my boyfriend yet that my selfcontion is trying to tell me if I don't kiss him I will never know if I like him a lot like I thought and that I will lose him I don't wont to lose him I like him he makes me so happy he makes me smile even with tears in my eyes what should I do I NEED HELP SO BAD PLZ HELP ME !
What should I do if I like my best friend but I have a boyfriend?
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- 3+ months ago by monkeygir...
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My dad was so right. I am too young to single out some young guy who doesn't know anything about life and I have not even checked out all the options. Its like picking the first car on the parking lot I come to. (ya dads are about cars) I say its like picking the first purse regardless of its color, size, style, design... I din't even KNOW what I want yet. So I don't get too close. I hang with the gang. not one dude. Plus one on one they start thinking they own me. Wanting to kiss and omg BACK UP!
Ya anyway so your in this confined space now and you want to breath and explore. LIKE is so different than LOVE. And there is no ring. Use that freedom girl. But don't use it to go from prison cell to prison cell. GET OUT OF THERE!. Just have friends for now. But keep it in groups or that boy will start acting crazy I tell you. Well my dad said so and he is soooooooo right. Love the dad! Let him be your one on one.
Sorry for the ramble but I have been there sis.
Hey I get it. I never had a first kiss either. Anyways, the only way you can know is just be yourself and try kissing your boyfriend. If you feel a spark or not then you'll know the answer. Plus, boy/girl best friendships are typically the way a couple could be a couple. Also, if the boy best friend is strong maybe they are worried that if his emotions gets out too soon they'll lose her. Anyways, knowing this will help a lot first try finding the spark in your boyfriend and if you find it or not then you'll know. Then find out if your boy best friend is hiding his feelings. Be honest and calm like a mother to a son. After that you'll know the answer to both. Anyways, hope this answers your question. Have a wonderful day!!!
well I like my best friend but I have a boyfriend and I don't want to lose him how can I stop liking my best friend before he finds out the both of them what should I do that is what i'm trying to ask