a guy is giving mixed signals because I told my friend to ask him if he likes me or not and he tells my friend he doesn't like me,but if he doesn't like me why not tell me to my face,like he tells my friend through a Facebook message but he can't tell me,to me that doesn't make sense but he constantly stares and checks me out,he mainly stares into my eyes for 1 minute. next he helps me out when I need it sometimes I don't even ask and my friends thinks he likes me but I don’t know.Finally I told my friend to send him my mean response and he was hurt so much that he didn't do nothing for a day or talked to nobody not even his mom or brother he just laid in 4 chairs stressed and got up slow and just walked to his dad quietly which is different from his usual self and when my friend was talking to him he was rude.But from there we never talked because while I hurt his feelings In the message I told him I won’t apologize when he read it. Before my friend asked him the question I would talk to him and he would tease me and everything and we even play with each other sports.But now we don't talk we just stare at each other for 1 minute I’m sad and he just has a sad blank face every time we stare at each other.So now I'm hurt like how does he feel about me because the truth is I'm in love with him and I'm 17 and he is going to be 18 and I want to tell him I love him But I want him to ask me and I don't know if he knows what should I do he is my pastors son.
but as of right now we say hi and bye and when he says hi he speaks and waves at me as well as he starring at me much longer like until the point were he can't see me no more he will watch me like yesterday he did that to me while I was bringing kids to the back and he wouldn't stop starring until I closed the door. Like I personally don't know what I'm gonna do I love him but he is my Pastors son therefore I'm shy what should I do.
What should I do if a guy treats me like this ?
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- 3+ months ago by preciousj...
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- signal, friend, treat, mixed, giving, guys, friends, guy
Added 3+ months ago:
like I don't know what imma do all of a sudden my crush out of nowhere just became mad chill and sweat again towards melike he used to while we was all doing outreach for our church and he was so respectful he like now says hi, hello and bye or later sometimes he even wave and we had a chill conversation last Saturday like I don't know what came upon him honestly he was actually nice to me again because he was like that before a long time ago and what shocked me was even when I gave him the water he says thank you now like he doesn't do this to the othe girls and furthermore when me and my friend decided to get a few more people for outreach we thought he would go with my mom and dad but he honestly surprised us and he caught up with us I don't know if it was because I was there but the point is he came and it shocked us because we thought he hated us. next when sunday came honestly he literally hugged both my parents which was totally a surprise I was in shock because he never did that to any of my friends parent's so when he hugged my parents it was a surprise and it was so cute because he was smiling at my dad and laughing and did the same with my mom it was amazing and when I said bye he said bye and even in the morning he was watching me say goodmorning to everyone I guess he was waiting for me to say it so when I said it he said goodmorning as well as his brother. So it was cute and now I say good evening and goodmorning everytime I see him and he still stares at me it's so cute I don't what to do and I haven't told him my feelings yet should do I honestly have a chance.
Responses (1)
I believe if he looks interested in you in person, he is. He could always be nervous enough/have enough respect for you to basically let you choose him, rather than vice versa. The guy you like telling your friend that he doesn't like you could just be a way to divert attention so that he isn't put on the spot. Many guys operate in this way, and it can be very tense to take the big step in opening up to you and tell you the truth. I would recommend one of two things: either, 1. Wait it out and let him make the move, which could work (give him some wiggle room) or 2. Be honest with him and tell him your true feelings. Something is sure to happen there, but make sure your feelings are real.
Hope this helped!
-Akven (male)
thanks for your opinion Akven that is very wise of you to say these things because you honestly helped me out a lot thank you so much and I am going to follow your advice.