Hey jad. Last night my girl had to take a few steps back from dating because she wasnt ready to continue this commitment right now. She has a daughter to take care of and school and work are taking too much of her time. We only dated for a month. But the good thing she promised is not about looking for someone else. She still wants to continue this friendship and still hang out. She will try to put some time for hanging out whenever she is ready and see where this goes from here. We care for each other alot. But on the other note do you think I should wait and see where this takes us since were just friends or do you think i should just keep moving? I dont want people to think im crazy that im patiently waiting because this happened before. I'm 27 years old and I haven't learned anything yet.
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I agree with the person at the top with her acing to much on her plate. If she likes you I'm sure she might not find someone else. Give It time if you want to. But after a while if you really don't want to wait don't feel like you have to. Think about things and don't rush anything. Don't jump to crazy conclusions and enjoy life.i don't mean YOLO
Hmmmmm, the thing that makes me wonder is she found the time for dating for a while and now doesn't. That could be a let you down gently thing. I'm not suggesting you move on, but I do think you should consider other dates until it becomes clear if she will become available again or not, a kind of halfway house thing.
How many months do you think I should give her? Because it's not just the space she needs. I was posting my emotions on Facebook Referring to her. That's probably why she slowly wanted to end things with me on the low. She doesn't have to tell me just because of her time and space. And I'm scared she'll find someone else And I don't want that. So how many months should I give her to text me Or call me?