my mom would tell me to do something like the dishes or take out the trash and i always say ok. i always wait a few seconds so i dont get up too quickly cuz it makes my vision blurry and she knows that. if i dont get up that very second that she told me to she will start to swear and call me mean names for no reason and yell really loud. if i was told to do the dishes she would go there and start to do them while still swearing at me. sometimes what would break something and if it cut her she would blame me and say "you made me do this. this is your fault!" what do i do?