I just found out my boyfriend and my best friend said I love you and a bunch of other romantic stuff to each other. I don't know what to do. I have been acting normal. I haven't told them anything. Should I break up with him? What should I do about my best friend?
What should I do?
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- 3+ months ago by Jenntrn321
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- friend, love, found, boyfriend, romantic, stuff, bunch, friends, best friend
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Just confront them both stop talking to your boyfriend and talk with your "friend" ask her why She did something like that behind your back. Don't just stop talking to her you have to talk it out. You have to talk it out with them both. If he gives you a stupid response break up with him. if he gives you a response that actually makes sense really think things with him but I'm not saying break up just think about it. The pros and cons. But your friend was never your friend if She would do something like that to you .
It would be best if you spoke to them separately but it's up to you who you talk to first. When you confront them do not shout at first as you might not get the same answer like you would if you was calm.
Arrange to see your boyfriend alone so you can tell him what you've discovered and then ask him questions about it then see what his point of view is.
Arrange to see your "best friend" and do the same where you tell her what you've discovered then ask questions about it then see what her point of view is.
Try and do it so you see them both around the same time (one after the other or the day after) so that they cant come up with the same thing to say so nothing you wouldn't like is revealed.
I think you should really finish your relationship or go on a break to clear the air and you should no longer have a friendship with your "best friend" as they have both betrayed you which as a boyfriend and a best friend they shouldn't do that.
Okay,I would talk to my best friend first it's always easier.Your boyfriend should have let you know this was happening if he really did love you.That is totally wrong for him to do thAt but your bestfriend the most you trusted her..... I couldn't forgive unless they had any kind of explanation but that's me. Talk it out some maybe it will turn out right or maybe you should dump his sorry butt and find a better friend because she wasn't your friend because friends do NOT hurt the people they love.
hun,you need to sit down and talk to your boyfriend,you should tell him you know and how you feel let him have his chance to explain what has happened. but with all that said do not let him walk over you and with your best friend she is next. you need to tell her how ou feel and she needs to talk to you and from there you let it all go with your hearts choice.
dont take this hun you can get a man who thinks you are his world not a cheating on. it will never be the same between your friend and ex (if you brake up) again but you are better getting your feelings and anger out or you will never work through it and will regret staying silent.
First, open your mind and sort things out in your head. Second, do you know if there is more going on than just saying "I love you" that they are in a secret relationship. Third talk to them both at different times. Fourth, a best friend and boyfriend wouldn't be going behind your back. Some people don't get that if you truly care about the person you are with you wouldn't do these things. Finally, just don't let your emotions take control. Go with reason and emotion Not all emotion or like a robot with no feelings.
