i'm in a relationship with my boyfriend from 8 months,i'm so in love with him,and he loves me too... we don't live in the same town but we meet everyweek,i have a best friend too and we are so close,we spend all the day together,he is so funny and cute,i enjoy beeing with him,i don't know but i feel like there is something between me and my best friend,we study in the same class,he keep looking at me and smiling,he adore my smile so everytime i smile he kiss me,he made me laugh all the time,he get jealous from other boys,he care about me the most,he take care of me like i'm his girlfriend or something like that,even people think that we are together,he hold my hand sometimes,when i feel cold he hugs me to feel better,when i get mad he make me smile,the last period the relationship between me and my boyfriend wasn't that good,so he keep telling me to wait and that everything is going to be allright,oneday he kissed me and i get mad so he apologize and he promis that he won't do it again,at that day he told me that he has a crush on me but because he know that i love my boyfriend he told me to forget about it,last day i dreamt about him,we was kissing,it was weird cuz it is the second time,he dream about me all the time too but we keep laughing about his dreams,few days ago a friend of him ask him to act like they are in a relationship and he said yes,and then he told me it's just a game and he swear that he doesn't love her,anyway,i adore my boyfriend and i don't wanna lose him no matter what,i want all this to stop but i don't wanna lose my best friend too,i'm so confuse i don't know what to do
What should I do?
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- 3+ months ago by wjdn
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- love, town, boyfriend, meet, relationship, month, relationships
Answers (3)
That is a difficult question, I can't tell you how to solve it because thats something you have to figure out yourself. What you shouldn't do is keep your best friend hooked. If you are certain that you don't want anything more from him than his friendship, tell him. Otherwise you are certainly gonna lose him eventually. It might be hard at first but the alternative is much worse, believe me.
I say go with ur best friend. I have had a similar situation and I found out my bf cheated on me. I loved him he loved me too. But before that my best guy friend was always there for me. When me and my bf broke up I realized I would have been much happier with him. And him and I have been dating for 5 months
I love him a lot and he has loved me for along time. He is the one for u!
(Ur bestie)
but i'm not sure about how i feel yet
thnx for helping me