I'm having a HUGE problem lately. And I don't know what to do at all.. Its just so... I don't know what to say about it, but its like confusing. So, the thing is that my best friend/sister (since she has always there for me whenever I needed a person to talk to) and I both like the same guy. He likes both of us, but, apparently, likes me more, from what she said. But.. She has a boyfriend, but she doesn't loves her boyfriend in the same way anymore, from what she said to me, she doesn't think he is attractive at all anymore. Anyways, at a football game, the guy we both liked, he kissed her. (This was a couple weeks ago.) I had gave her advice to break up with her current boyfriend since he would get too attached to her and she would feel bad for hurting him more than she would do if she broke up with him now. I gave her that advice a couple of times, but she didn't listen. Anyways. I like the guy, but the thing is that I'm afraid he will do the same thing my ex boyfriend did to me. We dated for six months then he dumped me for my best friend three days after we broke up. I'm afraid that the guy we both like, if I date him, will soon dump me for her. I don't want that to happen again. My best friend/sister wants me to date him, but... Like I said, I'm afraid to. I don't want the guy we both like to get into our friendship and ruin it, but... Yeah. Anyways... This is a conversation we had over Facebook:
"Her: If M ever asked you out, what would you say?
Me: .__. I dunno. I'm not ready for a relationship. Why?
Her: ..... No reason.
Me: Okay. o.o / is confused.
Her: He likes you. (i didnt tell you)
Me: I thought he liked you? Wow.
Her: Yeah. He said he's probably going to ask you out.
Me: Don't you like him?
Her: Do you want me to tell you the conversation?
Me; Sure. o.o
Her: "Him: I have a question
Me: what
Him: would you get mad if i went out with someone?
Me: No.. Why?
Him: just asking
Me: NO. There's a reason
Him: I might ask out someone
Me: C?
Him: Yeah
Me: Well it was very obvious that you like her.
Him: Lol"
Me: .___. Fuck.
Her: Yeah
Me: I thought he liked you? D:
Her: I don't care
Me: D! :cccc
Her: What
Me: I know you like him.
Her: I don't caaaaare I was never going to date him..
Me: NO! I thought he liked you. .__.
Her: He likes you more. Date him, I want you to. I'm not going to be upset, you need a guy to treat you right, he will. Don't ignore meee!
Me: No. I wont date him cause: 1. You like him. 2. And if I date him, I might get stressed and s**t since my mom bitches about the guys I date. 3. I don't think I'm ready for a relationship right now since I have been single for only four months, I dunno if I still hold a small bit feelings for N.
4. Its not fair to you..."
D is a shortening of her name and C is also a shortening of my name. N is a shortening of my ex's name. I need help. What should I do? Help? Please....