What shade of blonde should I use for my hair?

I think a light golden blonde with some highlights or contrast, or a reddish blonde would be fine. However, it's very difficult to tell exactly, unless you see it by yourself. The best thing that you can do to avoid wasting time and effort is to try wearing different hair wig colors. This way, you can directly see how you would look like in a specific color. You can visit thelacewigsstore.com, they have a wide variety of colors and wig lengths to choose from.