Ok, me and my boyfriend broke up cause he didnt trust me. He is a nice guy, faithful honest, and my parents love him. I treated him reallybad now I want him back. We still see and spend time together. He said the only way he would consider takin me back is if I mature, and show him I only want him. He still says he love me and I am so in love with him and dont want to move on, I want to keep,trying. He gets mad everytime I tell him im gone do better, he says I need to start showing him instead of telling. What should I do keep trying? What should I do to not push him away? Have anybody ever been im this situatiom b4 and yall got back together? Also he use to sell drugs a year ago but he have turned his life around, he goes to church has a job and dont fool with drugs anymore, but he been going to court for a year now, and he might be facing time, I really want to wait for him and work on getting better while he away is it right to wait? Should i?
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Depends on whether he passes the physical.
ok so its clear that you love this guy, so if you really love him as much as you say then ofcourse you should do whatever you can to keep him. You know what he wants from you (to mature) so thats what you have to do, show him that you can be what he wants and that he can trust you, and even the little things can make the biggest difference. No matter what he's going though stay by his side and be supportive. He's turned his life around and you can see that hes trying to get his life on track and its really important that you show him that your there for him, which is the mature thing to do. If your having any doughts about the jail situation than maybe it'll be best to wait til he gets on to get at it again but still be there for him while hes there and he'll see that you truely care about him. Havent been exactly in this kinda situation but close to it.
good luck.
you love him, that's good, whether he really loves you or not? You are ready to sacrifice for him, whether is he ready to sacrifice for you? whether is he really changed or they are only lies?. It often happens that we do not trusted ourselves, how to trust others?; Be careful ,,in love" this is fleeting, Life is longer, and trust in love is the most important. We are to blame for our mistakes so decides alone. I wish you luck.
He was convicted of selling drugs and prosession of counterfit, but this was way b4 I met him, but he is trying to go to the army instead of jail, but he has had heart sugery so does he have a chance?