I was in a relation with a girl for 18 months then i dumped her without any reason (i know thats bad ) and she was always begging me for a patchup after two months we patched up then we had a great fight on our first date (reason :i was talking to other girls ) after two days she called me and asked for patchup once again .i said no and then again she starting begging ( it was a real begging ) after six months i realized that i was somehow wrong i apologized and asked for a patchup she obviously said no this time but since three months she is still in contact with me but in very disgusting way ,always asks me stupid questions and stupid convo. And when i ask for a relation or it comes to me she just turns into a real "B****" starts insulting me and treats me like an ass i dont know is she just taking revenge (but sometime she really shows care ) or what :/
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She really likes you and you are being a total douche like seriously look she deserves better and if you like her than show it ok just look her in the eyes and show her ok she will keep coming back but not for long I'm not trying to be mean but just tell her how you feel and if you don't like her tell her but I know it's scary sometimes and the thought of a committed relationship is scarier than being burned alive so take it slow and talk things out and take it SLOW and she and you both need to know that
Have done it but she starts using different tactics and again gets in contact
What people want in a boyfriend? Not someone who speaks to other girls and leaves them without any reason. I've been there and it sucks! Girls want kindness, hey want commitment, they want a guy whose there, a guy who sees her but most importantly they want a guy who loves her for her.
I don't think, this is going to sound harsh I know, but I don't think you can fix this. Let her move on and allow yourself to do the same. If it's meant to be it will be, just not right now. Give her her space. Stop texting her and asking her for a relationship, it's not fair on her nor is it fair on you. She's probably terrified that you'll walk out again with no warning just as you did before, if you really want her back you've got to fight for her, show her you are not going anywhere. I know I said you can't fix this but maybe you can if you put in the effort. Show up to hers with flowers. Tell her you still care and that you want her back. Promise her you aren't going anywhere and stick by that promise. If she still says no, don't call her all the names on the sun, respect her decision and move on with your life and let her do the same.
What can i do more thann an apology plus maybe by admitting my faults i made my self so down that she is now walking all over me
And yes i done exactly the same i made promises,went with the rosses , tried to buildup trust thing and did every single thing ,she says "she is dead inside" and bla bla immature talks ..
But still there was a NO .so i just stopped texting her then she tried logging in my social accounts having an excuse that she had a dream about me being in relation with some freaking girl ,(like really ???)
When i walk away she is yhe one to approach me and my friends to know that how i am, what am i doing ,but still there is" No " i cannot understand what she really wants ...
I'm assuming you want my honest answer...honestly I don't even think she knows what she wants herself and there is no point in you trying to fix things if she doesn't even know what she wants, trust can't be built with words, only actions. Prove to her you ca be trusted, dint give her any reason not to trust you but don't give up your life to chase after this one girl, you may be chasing after a dead end and honestly that's not fair in you. Ask her what she wants and respect her decision
You cant be a douche bag first off. She likes you obviously and she wants you to be her hitta so man up and take her back. Every girl likes to feel wanted so make her feel special and wanted. Don't break up for no reason after an year and a half relationship, thats really shitty honestly.
I know that was shitty :/
I like her ,and i want to be commited again but when i talk about it ,she turns into a b**** and when tell her about my feelings she starts taunting me like "remember what you did last six months " and even she is not even finishing the contact