People keep messing with me , I am unhappy almost all the time and my friends are rude to me
WHAT IS WRONG WITH ME?!?!?!?
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I'm unhappy when I think back to the past or see pics of me younger of me and my sisters and sometimes my family is rude to me and idk why people mess with me
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What you can do
1. Focus on your strengths. (2 Corinthians 11:6)
Recognizing your assets will give you the confidence you need to break free from a negative self-image and overcome loneliness. Ask yourself, ‘What are my strengths?’ Think of some talents or positive qualities that you possess.
2. Take a genuine interest in others. Start by showing interest in just a few people. “Simply asking others how they are doing or asking them about their work helps you to get to know them better
Tip: Don’t limit yourself to people of your own age.
3. Cultivate “fellow feeling.” (1 Peter 3:8) Even if you don’t agree with another’s view, patiently allow that one to talk. Dwell on points that you agree on. If you feel you must express disagreement on some issue, do so in a mild and tactful way.
Tip: Speak to others the way you would want to be spoken to. Needless bickering or teasing, insulting, or self-righteously condemning others simply alienates them. They will like you a lot more if you “let your utterance be always with graciousness.”—Colossians 4:6.
Tell them that they are genuinely hurting your feelings. When I hang out with friends, they are sooo rude, but I know they're joking. If people mess with you, you straight up tell them: "No, I don't need this. Leave me alone." Find new friends, go to a different clique, find people that glow, or are happy constantly, and ask them: "Why are you always happy?" Hope I helped(: