So I've been dating this girl for a few months now and it's been going fairly well, a few fights here and there but nothing we haven't moved on from. Over the weekend she went on a trip to Belgium with her class over the weekend and got back 2 days ago but ever since then she hasn't been herself. She barely texts me and when she does she just gives short answers. When she bothers to text me she doesn't send x's like normal (cringey but it's what we do) and last night I text her saying I love her and she's always said the same before but didn't reply until late today. I've been best friends with her for a long time and she was with me through my last relationship in which I was cheated on so I don't think that's the case here. I know it's her time of the month she told me but it's never been this bad. Please give any advice, no matter how hurtful it may be, thanks!
What is up with my girlfriend?
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- 3+ months ago by bob_rosser
- Topics:
- girl, fight, girlfriend, haven, dating, girls
Answers (3)
the way you talk about it it sounds like something may have happend in belgium, but we cant tell for sure if this is true. maybe she is just not feeling well these days, family problems, depressed.Also its her time of the month, maybe it makes her feel bad about herself, worse than usual. talk to her about it, ask her why she is different then usually, why she doesnt reply to you, do not spam her tho. give her time to talk, she will talk eventually even if its hard to wait. communication is important. hope it helps u at all
It does sound like something happened in Belgium. Depending on her age, she could possibly be having an attraction to someone else or she could just be in one of those moods where she just don't feel like talking. Because you mentioned it is her time of month, I would say she probably just don't feel like talking. Give her some space. She could just be really busy.
I'm really sorry to hear about this. Well I can only imagine what's happened, and I guess that's the same as you & everyone else here. I know we can only assume the worst, but it'd suck to jump to the worst conclusion & be wrong. So I think the best way to go about this would be to just ask her. If something is wrong, atleast it will put your mind at ease and help you sleep at night. However if nothing wrong, you two will get the chance to sort things out if need be, and once again, be able to sleep at night. Hope my answer has helped. Good luck for the future. Hoping for the best.