I don't know how to say it; I think I have a fear of "bad" people. Bad people as in people who make wrong/unfavorable decisions not really on the terms of murder and robbery (though that's bad decisions too). I have a friend that is quirky and I kinda like him (though I used to hate him because he annoyed the hell out of me). We recently made a truce (and possibly friends) but there something that makes me feel as though I'm in danger when I'm with him...and not just him. My other two girl friends. It bothers me because they're nice and stuff but whenever they talk of taking drugs or drinking alcohol...it bothers me. I'm not particularly disgusted (though I admit that I look down on that stuff if you're underage and do it often but I try not to judge people because it's unfair they could be a really nice person), more like "OMG WHAT ARE YOU DOING THATS WRONG DONT DO THAT YOURE UNDERAGE ASDFGHJKL" and I get this weird feeling like a shiver but...ugh it's hard to explain. When they're around I feel uncomfortable and in danger like they're going to take out some drugs and start doing it and maybe get me involved and and ahhhhhhhh!!! Is that normal? Instead of feeling like they're in danger wouldn't they feel disgusted instead??? HELP! Perhaps I'm over exaggerating?
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Here's a few possibilities of what it could be: Decidophobia, Scelerophobia. And first of all, there;s nothing wrong with phobias, but I don't think you have one. I personally am disgusted with the kind of behaviors you talk about to, and while I do respect people's opinions as you said, I also have my own which I believe are right (and they often are) and it's good you think those kinds of things are wrong, it means you care about your friends. They just might not see it that way.
You might be right I've found that if I think of someone else the particular feeling goes away, so I guess it's not that bad! Thanks!
No problem! Glad to help.
Hummm...maybe I have the slight scelerphobia but I guess it's not that bad, thanks!