What is teen parenting?

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*** Raising Children in a Permissive World

Raising children is hard work. Doing that work wholeheartedly with the guidance of God’s Word is certainly demanding, but the rewards are priceless. Parents magazine noted: “Studies . . . have found that children brought up by loving but authoritative parents—those who are supportive of their children yet maintain firm limits—excel academically, develop better social skills, feel good about themselves, and are happier overall than kids whose parents are either too lenient or excessively harsh.”

There is an even better reward. Earlier we considered the first part of Proverbs 22:6: “Train up a boy according to the way for him.” The verse continues with these heartwarming words: “Even when he grows old he will not turn aside from it.” Does this inspired proverb offer a guarantee of success? Not necessarily. Your child has free will and will grow up to exercise it. But this verse offers parents a loving assurance. What is that?

If you train your children according to the Bible’s counsel, you are creating the most favorable circumstances to bring about a marvelous result—seeing your children grow up to be happy, fulfilled, and responsible adults. (Proverbs 23:24) By all means, then, prepare those precious “arrows,” protect them, and expend yourself in directing them. You will never regret it.

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Sounds perfect, but what happens when some teenagers cannot accept the bible due to the knowledge of the world now.?

*** I’m afraid to say history has a point repeating it’s self for example:

A lady 48 years old has a baby girl and her daughter is 31 years old and in turn she has a baby girl and her daughter is 16 and she’s having a baby girl. (So that mean the first lady had her baby at 17 years old, her daughter had her baby at 15 and her daughter had her baby 16). You see the pattern if someone doesn't break the cycle it will continue to snow ball.

This is not one hundred percent accurate I’m just basin this on what I see. I work in Labor and Delivery in a local hospital this has been the trend for over 20 years since I have been working there. Many kids are coming from broken family when there’s no father at home. So they begin looking for (love / father figure) it elsewhere, as a result this is what happening.

Teen Parenting is different than other age groups. Teenagers are very hard to parent because they start to grow away from their parents. This is natural. It's beneficial for the survival of our species when teenagers break away from their parents and cluster in small peer groups.

There is power in numbers.

Therefore, parenting teens is hard.

Research shows that it is best to be "authoritative" parents. This is much different than being an authoritarian parent.

Authoritative parents set the rules of the household... but they also Listen to their children. They show warmth and love to their kids. And they value their opinions.

Hope this helps.

Eric Earle
Director of Mentoring and Tutoring
www.mentorportland.com

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