In the last couple of years I have asked people questions that have to do with understanding, I would say what do you think of gay and lesbians, most replied indifferent or for it, then I would ask what about furrys, or ABDLs, when asked what that was and giving an explanation automatically I would hear the words freak, creeps not normal even as far as they should kill themselves, I asked why, why do you have such hatred towards them not one, not one gave a valid answer, even as stupid as just because, I am a 25 yr old successful by some standards, none drinker, none drug or ever tried drugs type of person, I would even get the kind complement by many your not like other guys, and with out shame or care of others opinions I wear diapers not for medical reasons but to help relax me even to the point of wearing 24/7, I don't understand why society can't let people live there life's, it really does baffle me why can't people see it as, as long as its not hurting yourself or others live your life, it really makes no sense when really looking at the bigger picture, what we have come to see as "normal" is sad, drunken idiocy, drug related violence, influenced judgments, how and why is that normal, to sum it all up people who are week minded who don't have a choice in wearing diapers because of medical reasons, a person who is different gets outcast to the worst even to the outcome of suicide and why because of the word normal because in the eyes of the week minded and low self esteem being different is being alone, being alone is life with out purpose life with out purpose is death
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I read your manifesto and then realized you did ask a question at the beginning.
All reality is subjective, we all see the world *only* through our own eyes, therefore we build up a picture of what normal is from our own experiences (that's just the way we humans do it!), we take a little guidance from the outside world when we are not exactly sure (because it is outside of our experience) and formulate what "normal" is.
Most compare people they meet to the most perfect human they have ever known - themselves (I know that sounds conceited and stupid but it's unfortunately true).
What you must remember is that most people are closed minded, reactionary bigots. Anything that varies a little from the widely held definition of "normal" raises an eyebrow and most people will say of things like homosexuality, that they find this to be for the most part o.k. (when in reality most only say it because society has deemed it more acceptable nowadays). Their own opinion may vary, but as I am sure you know when strangers ask you questions you tend to answer the way you think they want you to, especially if they might be thought less of because of their opinion by the collective.
I do not conform to the "normal" way of thinking as for me it is a simple construct on a personal and societal scale.
Do not think of yourself as different to others, just think of others as different to you (as I said, this is just what humans do!) and carry on doing whatever it is you do and stop concerning yourself with others opinions, they are as important to you as you let them be.
Enjoy your life, whatever life you choose.
A lot of people do see it as not that weird or normal but the thing is, it's a specialized kink/fetish. You can't expect that people should be into it if you talk about it openly because ABDL can involve actual human emissions (ie, shit or piss) which is gross to some people. The idea just generally makes some people uncomfortable. That doesn't mean there isn't acceptance for you or for people with this kind of kink, you just have to find your community. Check out www.fetlife.com and start meeting people with your similar interest and you will find more acceptance. In the meantime, this is kind of one of those things that is best left to the bedroom. At best it's very private and at worst people who aren't kinky ("vanilla") are never going to understand or accept you. But here's the thing; you don't need them to. Why do you care about acceptance of your personal fetish by the public at random? You don't need their validation. Let your freak flag fly bruh.