I am at the point in life where I need to make a really important and fast choice for my future but doesn't matter how much I consider it, I can't come up with 1 to follow.
Long-lasting dream that my family refuse to support and that has 65% of fulfillment ?
What my family wants for me but that I have 0 desire to do ?
My instincts shout that I need to wait and choose none of 2 at this moment but I have only 4 days for consideration. How can I resolve my inner struggle ?
What is important in making a choice for life:Long-lasting dream? instincts? what my family wants?
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- 3+ months ago by M V A
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- life, family, fast, dream, point, future, choice, matter, dreams, instincts
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well i don't know if this is any relief but ...
you are not alone, same thing here ^_^
hopefully i have more time to think about it but still ...
but for the real answer:
1-Instincts: well i think it depends on how old you are and how much experience you got
2-Long-lasting dream: its a big motive, i don't know what you dream is but if you work hard for it you definitely get somewhere (i believe hardwork pays off)
3-Family: and for the family, based on my experience family want you to become a normal person, stay out of trouble and make a living for yourself rather than following your dreams and going for adventure etc ...
for myself i'm kinda doing both i'm following my dream and also doing what my family want
just remember there is no right choice right is what you make of it
Well... in any way...thanks really... though I have decided to go with the flow for the moment... than I will deal with what it will bring.
1. Instincts: I am 22, I have somewhat of experience but more that I have always followed my instincts till now. I will see what is next to come, to make the decision.
2. Long-lasting dream: I have waited 6 years to make it true, I think 3-4 years won't make difference. But still I have, am and will work hard for it, doesn't matter what the circumstances are. I know that it sounds childish but I can't change myself )))
3. Family: I know that they want the best for me and make their decisions only based on their love for me but... It makes things worse, I can't put myself to refuse or stand against their decisions.
I am sort of doing the same right now but still just hesitant of the right path.
Yeah, I know it, but I just don't want to have any regrets or any "what if"...
As my credo in life is - “A path is only a path, and there is no affront, to oneself or to others, in dropping it if that is what your heart tells you . . . Look at every path closely and deliberately. Try it as many times as you think necessary. Then ask yourself alone, one question . . . Does this path have a heart? If it does, the path is good; if it doesn't it is of no use.” ― Carlos Castaneda
Still... Can't avoid it right now... In any way... Thank you very much for the advice !!!