What is he thinking about me? And what should I do next?

Question

Hi there!! 

I have been thinking about this guy almost every single minutes for couple weeks. 

We had met and spent a good time one evening. Then, he asked me out couple days later. After the second date, he texted me and tried to ask me out in his own way. So, I asked him if this the way you ask girl out. He mentioned that he is so shy and it is the way to tell that he likes a girl so much and want to see her the next day. We had another date. It was great. We had our first kissed. And we had another kiss before we left which unfortunately it was our last kiss before he had to go back to his hometown the next morning. 

He texted me after he got back for 1 day. We had a good long talk. The next day he still kept texting me. I felt so good and texted him first another day. All those conversations were great and quite long. Then, he disappear for 2 days. I was worried during that 2 days. really want to text him but i decided to keep waiting. Finally, he texted me and we had another good long conversation. And again, i text him the next day. Trying to do not let him start first. Keep two ways communication. BUT now it has been already 3 days that he has not texted me back. I am so frustrated and miss him so much. 

I was thinking that he was into me and I am definitely into him. But quite not sure about it now. 

What is he thinking about me? and what should i do next? Should i text him first since i really want to talk to him.

Answer

Don't be so coy, he's shy perhaps he's waiting to see if you want to speak to him, he's not going to bother speaking to a girl who doesn't seem interested. 
Just text him and ask if he still wants to chat, simple as that.
He already gave you the message "I'm shy" if you are too then you need to talk about it.
Sometimes the girl has to do the asking, he might even feel the same way, how are you ever going to find out?

What is he thinking about me? And what should I do next?

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