what does it mean if a guy gives you mixed signals because I told my friend to ask him if he likes me or not and he tells your friend he doesn't like you, but if he doesn’t like me why can’t he just tell me to my face , like he can tell your friend through a facebook message but not tell me to my face, to me that doesn’t make sense, but yet he and he still stares and checks me out, like he mainly stares into my eyes though for like a full minute or 45 seconds. Furthermore as well he helps me out when I need it and my friends thinks he likes me but I don’t know what to believe or who to believe. Finally after he told my friend on Facebook messaging he doesn’t like me I asked my guy friend him to send him a mean message to him and he was hurt so much that it literally didn’t do nothing for a whole day or talked to anyone not even his mom or brother he just layed in a whole bunch of chairs stressed and got up very slow and just walked to his dad quietly that was different from his usual self and when my friend was talking to him he was rude to her. But from there we never talked because before I hurt his feelings and In the message I told him I won’t apologize when he read it. Before my friend asked him the question I would talk to him and he would tease me and everything and we even play with each other sports and games or whatever but now we don't talk we just stare at each other from 45 seconds until a full minute and then look away and I’m sad and he just has a sad blank face every time we stare at eachother. So now I'm hurt, what should I do, like how does he feel about me because the truth is I'm in love with him and I'm 17 and he is going to be 18 in 3 months and I want to cry because, I want to tell him I love him, but I'm scared because I don't know if he feels the same way, because he's giving me mixed signals. But I want him to ask me and I don't know if he knows I'm in love with him what should I do.