what does it mean if a guy gives you mixed signals because I told my friend to ask him if he likes me or not and he tells your friend he doesn't like you, but if he doesn’t like me why can’t he just tell me to my face , like he can tell your friend through a facebook message but not tell me to my face, to me that doesn’t make sense, but yet he and he still stares and checks me out, like he mainly stares into my eyes though for like a full minute or 45 seconds. Furthermore as well he helps me out when I need it and my friends thinks he likes me but I don’t know what to believe or who to believe. Finally after he told my friend on Facebook messaging he doesn’t like me I asked my guy friend him to send him a mean message to him and he was hurt so much that it literally didn’t do nothing for a whole day or talked to anyone not even his mom or brother he just layed in a whole bunch of chairs stressed and got up very slow and just walked to his dad quietly that was different from his usual self and when my friend was talking to him he was rude to her. But from there we never talked because before I hurt his feelings and In the message I told him I won’t apologize when he read it. Before my friend asked him the question I would talk to him and he would tease me and everything and we even play with each other sports and games or whatever but now we don't talk we just stare at each other from 45 seconds until a full minute and then look away and I’m sad and he just has a sad blank face every time we stare at eachother. So now I'm hurt, what should I do, like how does he feel about me because the truth is I'm in love with him and I'm 17 and he is going to be 18 in 3 months and I want to cry because, I want to tell him I love him, but I'm scared because I don't know if he feels the same way, because he's giving me mixed signals. But I want him to ask me and I don't know if he knows I'm in love with him what should I do.
What does this boy mean ? How does he really feel about me? Does he hate me or like me?
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- 3+ months ago by preciousj...
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- signal, boy, friend, mixed, hate, feel, guys, boys, friends, guy
Added 3+ months ago:
not only will he be 18 in 3 months but the fact that he is a senior in high school and he's about to graduate and maybe not go to prom and I'm a junior in high school and I honestly don't know if he's going to be local or go away for college and I known him for 5 years and I been in Love with him for 3 years and I don't know why he won't just tell me he likes me because it obvious and my friends say the same thing but let m not forget to tell you this he is my Pastor of my church son.
Answers (2)
Are you sure because to me its strange because he been acting like this for 5 years that I known him it's just recently he been bold since like September of last year to January this year but now we don't talk or anything the only connection we have is our eye's like today I was at church and he was staring at me as I was taking a picture with the group of ushers at church we were wearing blue and black and he wore purple and black because those were the colors of the ushers at church me and worship team purple him and did I forget to mention he is the pastors son. finally I really didn't know he is shy and that he loved me like I honestly thought he hated me but it actually makes sense now and the thing I'm scared to tell him I love him because I don't want to scare him and I want him to ask me out I don't want to do all the work and ask him out what should I do like I really do love him and its hard because he is actually my pastors son and I am like very close to his mom and dad but more his dad he treats me like his daughter way more than all the other teenage girls in the church who we call youth I'm like his fathers favorite so I have a good relationship with them so less pressure on him but Idk like I want him to ask me out what should I do because he is my pastors son its actually a little bit awkward but it doesn't change how much I love him so what do you say to this Trenton what's your idea or thought of what I could do
but that's my point he's going to be 18 in July and he is already a senior in high school like he is about to go to college soon I don't know if I have a lot of time and idk if he is even going to his prom finally I tried to talk to him on Facebook he never reads my messages or answers them like idk why he is trying to hide his feelings because he is a pastors son like I known the boy for 5 years now like idk why he wont just tell me how he feels why would he cover it up idk what I'm going to do