I started going to this vet, and it just happens that due to some medical problems with my families animals I had to go about every week for about 6 months. Each time I went the vet would talk to me like I was the only one in the room even if I had the owner of the said pet was with me. Everyone in my family noticed this. So 6 months of direct eye contact, sharing of personal stories, and ignoring everyone else, I asked said vet on a date to either go bowling or mini golfing so we can get to know each other. He said yes, but he didn't really care for my ideas and suggested one of his own. He said that he had a dog and wouldn't mind if I brought mine to the dog park one day. Of course I accepted. Before he left to continued working he made sure I wrote down his email address and told me to contact him there. That night I wrote him a email. The next morning I woke up to an email from him stating that he was in a relationship and just wanted to be honest. He also mentioned that his dog was just now healing from his surgery and is not ready to go to the dog park yet. I responded back letting him know that I would be happy just to go as friends and just to contact me when the doggy was ready. I never heard back from him. Why would he say yes and then recant? Why wouldn't he have mentioned a relationship when I asked? I don't understand.