This is what happened between us. This guy I like is 34, and I am 27. I was online, and he commented that he liked a song I wrote online. So I decided to talk to him. One thing I said was, ":) my daughter is asleep". Then, he stopped talking to me. I found out from someone he felt like I wanted to be more than friends. I know this man from church. I have known him for 3 months. I thought people were telling him bad things about me, and then, I told him, "I care about you", and I didn't want him to believe those people. He freaked out when I told him that I care about him. No one was talking bad about me, so I misunderstood. I asked him to forgive me, and I told him all is forgiven. He won't write me back. I didn't hear from him for 3 or 4 days, so I blocked him from contacting me online. Then, he was at church one night, and he acted like he was hurt or sad when he was around me. He doesn't talk to me much at church. He keeps to himself. He only talks to certain people, like my mom's age, or my grandma's age. He stares at me all the time, but will not talk to me. He talked to my dad and told him what was going on. My dad told this guy I like to get a job and get his life together. He told the guy I like if things happen between us, great. If not, that's great too. He said if it is meant to be, it will happen. This man stares at me all the time and sometimes smiles at me. I heard from people that he is not ready for a relationship. One time, I was on the ground at church in the sanctuary, and he gave a woman a garment to put over me. One time, a lady asked him to help me with my stuff, and he said, "So do you need help with your stuff?". I said, "sure". After the stuff was in the car, I said, "well thanks again". He said, no problem. It seems like he feels awkward around me, like he does not know what to say to me. It's like he wants to talk to me, but he is hesitant. He said one night to people and me, "See you guys later". I said, "See you later". He didn't say anything back to me. All he does is always stare at me. Then, the pastor was talking on a message about not being afraid of relationships. The guy I like said, "I am not afraid of that anymore". I was in the sanctuary when he said that, and it seems like he said that, so I could hear him say that. Now, it seems like he is being more bolder around people and try to open up to people. He won't talk to me much, but he is staring at me more lately. He was going to leave one night at church, but he came back and decided to stay. Then, on Wednesday night at church, he was wearing very nice clothes, like he was dressing up.