I have a crush that I really like. Here's the thing, my crush is my ex. I just like him for no reason. Since the major "break up" , me and my crush hadn't been talking that much. So since about the last 3 months, i've been talking to him again. But he sometimes hates me and i dont know why he keeps being offended by me. He deleted me like 4 times already from his contact. But always re-add's back. it's sorta like an on and off friendship. I dunno how to make him not hate me, let alone like me. I really need your help. What do i do? :(
What do you do if your crush oftenly hates you?
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- 3+ months ago by Christy_A...
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(realizing it's already been months, but hey, still might help in the future.)
The fact that he's been re-adding you on his contacts is a sign that he's considering you as a friend. He's probably trying to hold onto his anger, by deleting you, only to realize that you didn't mean any harm.
I would try to talk to him casually. Don't be pushy and give him some space, though try not to withdraw too much that it seems like you're the one avoiding him. Put yourself in his shoes, and talk about things that don't involve relationships, girls, or anything else that may remind him of the breakup. Give him some time.
Hey there. Firstly, if he is doing the whole on and off thing, it's because he isn't aware of his feelings and he is still hurt. That could be the case. You need to give him space and try not to put any pressure on your relationship. He may be scared of talking to you, he may not want another relationship. Also, if he keeps acting like a jerk, forget him. He doesn't deserve you, he will understand what he lost. You don't need to do that. Also who was the one who broke it off? If you, then he would be hurt and probably confused. If he did, he could of regretted it, been scared of commitment and Love or he had a good reason. Hope this helps!
Give Him Some Time To Think About It. ~Wolfie