when you kno this boy that started out to be a close friend that u talk to then carry on to be firends with benifits and know since its been a while you and hym flirt and want to be more than friends but know u realize he his as sweet as he can be and every hr u have with hym you flirt and other stuff but anothr hr he acts totaly different when it a nothr girl inside that he is very close to and they flirt and talk tell me what would you do ?
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Dear hotsweetcar
If I were you I wouldn't go beyond flirting- don't get carried away. He's trying to be a ladies' man and will try to impress every possible lady around, especially if they are pretty. Don't break your heart over him, he's what we call 'child-minded'. All he wants is attention and to increase his popularity. Sorry to say this, he doesn't really love, but just a friend. You can depend on him, but not to life long dedication. That's impossible for him. Do this simple test to determine if you can, mayyyyyyyyybe have a shot with him-
Sit in cafeteria with him. When a girl passes see if he lifts his eyes for a second. He'll probably try to hide it in front of him, but you'll notice it if he stops his conversation with you for a few seconds. Does he show you off like a prize to his football mates? Does he show off in front of you? He's trying to impress you but don't be fooled. Be polite and don't say anything stupid.
Best of luck.