my mom acts like she hates meor somethingineesd help so when people say they love me i believe it and i always makes me seem like a fool or a dummy who believes everything ppl say
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Dear hotsweetcar,
you mother will never hate you. NOT possible. it may seem that way but she subconsciously loves you. She's your mom duh. She's only doing it so you feel loved by your aunts/relatives/ whoever tells you they love you. And don't worry. Your mom loves you , but the most important thing is you love yourself. And don't believe everything everyone says duh. People can tell lies and when they say they love you they don't mean it in that sense they mean it formally, like you would say good morning to your teacher- you don't really care if she has a good morning- it's just a figure of speech.
I'm 61 yrs old, and I've been in some kind of trouble every single day since I stepped out of my last pair of diapers. Some very serious some less so. And do you know who stood by me when even the police wouldn't talk with me? My mom. She certainly didn't condone whatever I'd done, but she was always there to support me, from serious punishment to the authorities stern lecture. Of course we've disagreed, but she never stopped loving me, or I her. She pulled me out of the depths of HELL, to where I was able to put together a well paying, high official, career. Now comfortably retired, long out of trouble and thank God she's still around. Why? Because if I am asked to talk about my life, most people get up and leave before age 25. I can always talk to her, bad things or not. When you're a mother you'll understand. All answers don't come across the computer.
I humbly accept that as a compliment. Thank you. Maybe all that trouble beat some sense into me.
What ever works, and you get the desired result a productive citizen is a plus for society as large. We can use more moms like yours.
That's not true that your mom hates you, maybe she hates the bad thing thet you do, she only wants you to become a better person and a fruitful one. Dont take it seriosly, she love you more than anything else in the world. Take it as a challenge study hard, finish school and then show her that she mean alot to you!
That truly needed to be said, and by the way you are 61 years young,