To me for the girls it is 5 minutes enjoyment and if care not taken she will also have the rest of her life in shame and suffering while boy is also 5 minutes enjoyment and so far she as tasted the partner ones he can now have access any time and also contact S T D any time.
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sex in a commited relaship can be a very enjoyable expierence when done right for the both of you. and most of the time last longer then 5min. useing condoms prevent stds. and just because you have sex once doesnt mean the guy gets it whenever he wants. and having sex with someone your in love with isnt nothing to be ashamed of
I think in dis world of Customerization everything has become a commodity..even Love relationships are easily available in the era of globalism.I think Sex is the divine stage of any love relationship.In sex you get the Physical love and give the same thing to your partner.Both of you enjoy the same thing..But in this era Sex has become a PRODUCT that is almost easily available.You have money..You can have sex..(Prostitutes are available)..Even there are also some people who thinks "one can have this enjoyment in free of cost"..the reason behind such thought is that "Relationships" have become very light today..One can't sustain in single relationship..A single relationship can't satiate a single person..Because there is less emotion,devotion and attachment in the Love relationships today..That's why love has been transformed into Sex..(Next stage of love)..If this continues then one day will arrive when people will not get satisfied having sex with multiple partners in the same day/simultaneously..
You said "To me for the girls it is 5 minutes enjoyment"..yes that's the problem..the problem of your thinking..the society has been transformed and also in the same way people's thinking to opposite gender has been changed..LOVE=SEX=>DHOKA(Now)..
Your question is very intellectual I believe because any person of this age may have the same question loitering in their mind..
in response I would say..don't think in this way..if your partner may have shame/suffering in future then you and your partner both are responsible..because both of u have committed to sex..But because of the social formation-prejudice-beliefs it is girl who suffers..
i love that answer thank you for the answer
well that is in your own side and my own side because when you get it once there is at least 70% that you will surely get it again unless when you depart and the use of condom is not 100% protective well about the one of ashame or no ashame i am not saying that she will be ashame of the pregnancy to the partner but to other people if she is not suppose to be thanks for your answer.