What do men see in the woman from the song "she's so mean" by Matchbox Twenty?

something along the lines of someone seeing through a persons strongest feelings and a person who don't care about how ones feelings get missunderstood and they dapick to a mean person like the song says they see the woman as someone to stay away from because you don't want to be miscontruted or over look it sounds like the woman nobody wants to be around and mabe someone doesn't see the over all picture till its to late and she has a hold on you