What do I have?

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Can someone tell me what I have? 

I hate being around groups of people. At work I always eat lunch at a isolated table or by myself.

I can never understand or comprehend instructions. especially if a higher authority needs help ( boss, manager, or teacher). I get so nervous I focus on their facial expressions and if they are upset or if I'm going to get them upset more than what they need help on.

I HATE telephones. I sit the farthest away from a telephone at work because I can never comprehend what the person wants or asks for because I'm nervous that I will forget the information when I have to report the information to my boss. 

Always forgetting and losing items ( car keys, wallet, pens).

Really nervous when about to ask a question.

My performance at works sucks if a teacher sees me doing work. I get to nervous it's like I forget everything. If I'm buy myself I do great work.

I hate hanging out with a small group of people when there is a time to hang out at movies on Friday nights. I just rather stay home and study or do anything by myself.

I hate standing in grocery lines because it makes me nervous being around so many people.

I'm too tired and fatigued to clean my room or apartment all the time even though I want to.

I can get 8 hours of sleep and still be drowsy during the day. If I get 5 or less hours of sleep. My nervousness is ten times worse and I start sweating if I mess up. My comprehension and inattentiveness is also ten times worse. 

I have an appointment to see a psychiatrist next week but I want to let you know my symptoms. What do you think it is? 
Thanks for your time in reading all of this.

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Is sounds like you have social anxiety, feeling an overwhelming fear of people who judge you and what they think f you. But dont! most people barely focus on anyone, they are selfishly thinking about their own problems. Seek  God.

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This is not a walk in clinic and diagnosing is against the law.

If you are well enough to have gotten the job in the first place and haven't gotten fired for lack of skills then one would assume that things are not as bad as you are making them out to be.

However, if you have psychological difficulties there is nothing preventing you from going to a psychologist or psychiatrist and being tested and diagnosed by a trained professional and finding out if there is treatment for the problem, which there most likely is.  It's just up to you to make the effort to solve the problem or choose to let it control your life.

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There are clear indications that a failure among people in general to form solid human relationships can endanger a person&rsquo;s health. 
For example, there is a difference between privacy and isolationism. A certain amount of privacy is beneficial for thoughtful meditation, constructive thinking and planning. But isolationism is dangerous, as it deprives one of the balancing effect of others&rsquo; thinking, experience and judgment. 
Isolation has been shown to be a central agent in the etiology [starting cause] of depression, paranoia, schizophrenia, rape, suicide, mass murder, and a wide variety of disease states.&rdquo;&mdash;Psychology Today, August 1980. You may need to seek a doctor if your problems continue.   Prayer is also beneficial.
The bible says &ldquo;One isolating himself will seek his own selfish longing; against all practical wisdom he will break forth.&rdquo;&mdash;Proverbs 18:1.  It appears you have no purpose in life.  I am one  of millions of  people from different cultures and languages who have found the answers to such questions as  "What is the purpose of life,"  How can I live a happy Life, Why does God allow Suffering.  They have found comfort and hope by gaining accurate knowledge from God's word the bible. For more information on this subject and others, please go to jw.org "Online Library."  Also for free downloads, publications or read online.

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Go ask a real doctor. People online with no qualifications cannot diagnose you even if they think they're right.

What do I have?

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