I'm 20, pregnant (probably 1 month), keeping it with my boyfriend, my family hates that I'm in an interracial relationship, I need help with money, housing, insurance, and pretty much everything imaginable. I have no idea what to do or where to start. We are working $10/hour jobs, no saved money, I'm on my dad's insurance (he'll find out if I go to the doctor, I don't even have a car, my family cannot know I'm expecting until it is a 110% must, and we need to find a place to live because we live with his mom and grandparents and siblings and it's already crowded as it is (We are living in his bedroom). All the rentals near us are at least $700 a month (it's cheaper in places but we don't want to raise a baby in the hood, no offense to anyone, just being honest). I don't even know what doctor I'm supposed to see. I don't even have money to pay a doctor and I already have doctor bills to pay. How are we supposed to raise our baby when we aren't even taking care of ourselves? We want the best for our baby but we are afraid we won't be able to do what our baby needs/deserves
What do I do since I found out I'm pregnant?
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- 3+ months ago by Vanellawa...
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- family, money, found, boyfriend, pregnant, hate, relationship, month, relationships, interracial
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I know you are worried for this baby, and i know that you say your family hates your interracial relationship but if you think its a good idea, you should ask your family for help, especially your mom if you can. If they really love you then they will help you no matter what, i dont know if this will help you at all, but try your family and see if they will help you, and maybe live with your parents and get out of the crowded house, save as much money as you can from your jobs. If you can work overtime for more money, im sorry if this didnt help at all, i just know some and i know what my mother had to do for me.