I read my Mums diary and it had lots of things about her feelings for another man. I love my Dad and I have no idea what to do. Who should I see? Who should I talk to? Should I tell my Dad?
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No one know why people choose to cheat, even tho it's not right it's not your place to inform your dad. You are not with your parents 24 hours of the day, you don't know what goes on behine their close door. Even if you should inform your dad then what ? Stop reading your mums diary, as you see you might not like what you find out.
Why do you feel that you must talk to some one about this, they are your parents, some things are better left alone, your parents could split because of this are you willing to shoulder the blame because you were snooping, let it be, let it be.
good answer i agree with u cause u neva know wat she'll write next
This is tuff . You are in a very bad situation . But your mum is in a worse one . It's wrong to read a diary if it's not yours . It's temping , I know . It's really wrong on so many levels . But I would've done the same . I'd like to know what's going on in my mums life . The good things and the bad ones . You can try to get your parents closer . Make them go out more often . Make your dad win you mums heart again . If he starts wondering why , just tell him how glad you are to see them together . And how happy that makes you . Make something up , something that makes sence . Do the same with your mum if she starts wondering too . If your dad did that , she might forget about that man . She may move on . You'll never know . Let your mum remember the feelings she had for your dad . I know what I'll say next is wrong but make her feel bad and gelty for having feelings for a man who isn't your father . But NEVER break and say every thing . DON 'T make your mum break and say anything either . Your dad may not forgive her and they may split . You don't want to happen . Your dad doesn't have to know . That's all I can think of . I'm sorry . I hope I helped you even a little bit . I wish you the best of luck .
i like ur answer thats wat u should do if u cant keep the ssecret anymore
I like your answer too. Some people write in diaries to clear their heads. Some to live in an imaginary world. So confront your mom about it, then ask your dad if you can read his diary. If you keep reading peoples diaries, i think you will realise eventually that eavesdropping is never a happy ending
Although you say that I still don't know who to talk to about it. I don't want to say what was in the diary but it made it clear that she had feelings for another man. And I don't know what I should do or say to who...