We've been talking since may and we've gone on dates about 3 times because he lives far but we texted everyday (till today) and he would get mad if i didn't text him so i really thought he liked me! Because it was cute we would send each other pictures and he would tell me he wanted to see me again but now he says he's not in the position to have a serious relationship because he wantto change his ways first :( i don't get him he hasn't texted me now and i feel horrible :'( he says he realized he's not a good Guy because he played with his ex's feelings and another girls too but he doesn't seem like that type of Guy to me and he said he's not like that but he messed up and now he wants to be a better person... he's 24 by the way
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I know I have no rights to answer this cuz I'm only 14 but cuz no one answered yet, I thought maybe it'll be nice if I shared my experience:) well, I have the same experience but a bit different. My boyfriend lives in Chicago while I'm in Singapore. He USED to be a great guy, sweet, he immediately replies, cute:) however, everything changed when something happened. Now he's a total douchebag:[ 1. It's either you play the wait game, wait for him to change and you MIGHT get an awesome boyfriend that has changed:) 2. When he said he played with other girls feelings, he MIGHT be referring to you and he MIGHT now be flirting with another girl and he'll come up with an excuse like "I really tried to change but I'm sorry, it's not gonna work out." 3. You can prove to him that you are the one for him by messaging him(irritating him), he'll figure out that you actually care for him and he'll message either a negative or positive responds and you'll get your answer. 4. Do No.3 but add an additional step, message him for 3 days straight, then just stop, he'll wonder what happened, then he'll either message you or call you then just answer casually " you seemed to have stopped caring, so I thought you aren't the right guy." CAUTION: this step is dangerous. I sorry that i can't give you the best outcome but those are just choices. You can mash them up or use them to create new ways:) good luck:D