we basically have a distant relationship. he lives (4 hours away from me) i took up his phone one evening to text my mom and i happen to see a covo between him and a another girl so i open it, im not a person who goes through others people's stuff but this! GOD told me to do.anyways in the convo it appears to be be very friendly, they started off with the usual hi whats up how are you thing, but then he said i miss you hun, she said i miss you too beb... then later down in the convo he was like i miss you bad bad bad bad bad, and how he cant wait to be back in the location in which he lives. he didnt say why he wanted to be back there but im just guessing thats it to be with her. so i broke it off with him cause i was mad! this drove him crazy he came to my house ASAP to talk to me i didnt want to talk so i sent him to speak with my mom during that time my mom asked him to call the young lady right then and there to prove to me that she means nothing to him he of course refused my mother and i were off very turned by this, but its ok enuh cuz i have a plan. i do trust my bf but you see i dont know this girl and if it was his friend why havent i heard about her, i really dont want to get hurt again i been through worse when i comes on to relationships so now he's trying to correct this and he keep telling me that she is nothing and hes sorry he hurt me, ect i told him he has a week to prove to me that im the only girl for him and that he's not cheating he has been working on it every since.