Okay, after I graduated high school my friends and I packed our bags and went to Florida for a week getaway. To say the least... One night, later in the week, I met this girl through some mutual friends and as soon as I laid eyes on her I fell... Hard. We spent the last two nights going to the clubs, dancing our faces off, and hanging out on the beech just talking until three in the morning. Sounds great, right? Well turns out, we only lived a little less than an hour away from each other our whole lives, which brought along the idea of me wanting to hopefully making something more out of what we had those last two nights. Sure enough, after some time, me and this beautiful girl that I've come to know became my girlfriend, and we spent the whole summer going out on little adventures and spending time with each other... Where I quickly found myself falling more and more each and every day, so did she. Defiantly a summer that'll be hard to beat... Before we knew it, the thing we both knew was coming was upon us... The month of August, the time that we had to go to separate colleges located two hours away from each other. Me on a baseball scholarship, and her on a softball. We packed our things and headed on our routes. The first month was fine but shortly after, she started texting short and not wanting to hardly talk at all... All in all, it was over. We split, she started talking to another guy at her school, and we grew distant. Long story short, after two long months, she text me one night that we were both home for the weekend, and asked me to meet her. And you can guess it... I did. She got in my car and started to quickly explain what has been going on in her life, about her not being happy, her and her new guy not treating her as good as a man should, and stating that she misses "us." She explained that she planned to break up with him within the next week, and if I wanted, to try to work things out between us. She said that she understood if I didn't because of what happened but, of course I did. We returned to school, with her talking to me like things were great but after a day or so, it fell of a little. I didn't know what to do, so I asked her if she still wanted this to work, and she replied, "Yes." and later that week she texted me saying, "Well we broke up, I just need some time." So I let her know that I'll be here once she's ready to talk about things. What do I do? What are your thoughts about what she's trying to get at?
What do I do?
- Posted:
- 3+ months ago by lukeferg
- Topics:
- relationship, girls, friends, girl talk
Answers (5)
you need to do your thing and quite waiting for her. you are a crutch to her needs. don't be that guy. trust me do your thing, go out meet some new girls, make some memories for yourself. life is too short to wait for someone. if she comes around great, but don't wait for her, she's not waiting for you.
I understand your frustration you have people like that in the world she is the type don't know what she wont and she don't like to be alone when she told you that her and her bf was go break she said the same thing with him to you she is a manuliplative as well and she know she got you she really playing with your head I aplogozie about what happen but you have 2 options you can still talk to her but she going to take advangate you and go keep worrying do she love me and be stressed out or just move on and be single until you meet that right person in life everything take time I know you can do just keep your head up high and if she ever ask you what wrong just be honest and tell her I want someone that know what she want and I don't have to play cat and mouse you have your studies to worry about don't hurt your future for needy people they cant be fix and you cant change them god bless man
Never wait around for someone who isn't waiting for you too. You're putting her first and she didn't do the same. I understand your desire to be with her and if waiting isn't difficult for you and you feel like it's going to be worth it in the long run, I would go for it. But don't keep letting her have all the control in the relationship.