There is this guy I had been with for 4 months solid and I had to break up with him due to some serious difficulties with my parents not approving of him b/c he has a weird dad who tried to get to my mom. I still love him SO much and I don't know what to do. I was almost over him about 6 to 7 months ago until his very recent ex-gf called me and told me that he broke up with her because he was still in DEEP love with me. I called him the next night and he started pouring his heart out to me, telling me how much he loves me and I told him I was still in love with him too. I really wanna get back with him but my mom is still skeptic. Should I get back with him anyways?
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You both obviously still have feelings for each other and the thing that split you up is something neither of you are responsible for. I think it's kind of unfair that you lost a relationship because of this.
I know you have to factor in your mother's feelings but if she has problems with his dad, it shouldn't really be dealt with by keeping you two apart. You're being used as a solution but the real cause of the problem hasn't been dealt with. It's always better to deal with the cause directly.
Obviously involve your mother in the decision and keep her informed about things. I'm sorry this may cause her issues but they're not issues caused by you or the guy you love. You shouldn't have to pay the price. I vote that you tread cautiously but that you get your relationship back together.
Good luck. :)
Thank you soooooooooo much