So I'm 2 years away from finishing school and I have a crush on a guy in my class. He came like 4 years ago and we didn't talk much, until next year when his seat was right behind mine, we talked a lot and we became a little bit closer, although our friendship was just during classes. That year I started to have a little bir of a crush on him, I don't know why but he just started to look pretty cute to me. Then the next year He was still in my class and I still had a crush on him but he was being kind of a d*** to me, but I still had a huge crush on him. And finally this year, he is still in my class and my feelings for him couldn't be any stronger but we don't even talk to each other now, eveytime he looks at me I feel like I'm melting and I start to blush, and I look away so he doesn't notice that I was staring at him (yes, I stare at him every class), when I see him shirtless at the pool I feel like I don't need anything else in the world, and when he talks to me nicely, I just wanna hug him and never let go of him.
I don't know what to do because I know that if I tell him how I feel he is gonna reject me and tell everyone, also if I tell my friends they are gonna tell everyone too and my life would be ruined anyways. Now I just want to be friends with him but we don't have anything in common, so I don't know what to do, pls help.
What can I do with my crush? (Guy to guy)?
- Posted:
- 3+ months ago by Ninjarock...
- Topics:
- school, love, crush
Responses (4)
I thought this was a legit question until you said 'we have nothing in common'
Im sorry to say but thats a big no no, and how you said that you blush seeing him shirtless and him act nice besides him being a dick at times... total crush.
Now I cant say Ive never had a crush but Ill tell you what Ive done to 1) get over them or 2)find out if this really is greater then a crush
-Has he ever done anything just for you??
I mean as in he knows you well enough to give you the simplest of things that you needed. Is he different with you and only you? And I mean in a nice Sweet way.
-Maybe you dont have things in common...but maybe your mindsets are very similar?
usually a good couple will have things in common but other times they think similarly and agree with eachother on certain topics
Also... wonderful couples are known to argue from time to time time. If they always agreed with eachother something is horribly wrong, so dont get upset if theres quarrels here and there, its normal. Just you have know when its too much alright?
-Can you see your self being with him?? And do you think he might show you hints of liking you more than a friend??
By seeing yourself with him I mean logically...
-Can you get by without him? Can he go by without you??
Sure in a physical sense yes, but I mean mentally.
I hope this helped
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Well what you can do is first try to control ur self when u r around him ok and then try to find better friends! If he is tlking about something u know of and u think will impress him then talk dont be too shy ok and if he is being a real pain in the a** then find a new crush ok! Bye
Yeah I know you are right... This is the first time that something like this happened to me, and I know that maybe is just my hormones driving my mind crazy. But I cant control it, sometimes I ask myself why do I like him so much... He doesnt give a **** about me and he is not even my friend, but I feel like if I dont tell him before we finish school (and never see him again) I will regret it forever.
Thanks btw