Im a girl and it's been 2 months since i confessed to my girl best friend, though i've been rejected , i still like her, i'm always thinking about her. It's really hard for me to accept the fact that she won't love me back just because were both girls, she thought that i'm only after her body, but I'm not. I really don't know what to do, i'm tired of this one sided love. Yet i don't want to give up, i'm still hoping that one day she will accept me and love me back, I'm an idiot right? Hoping for the impossible.
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Well, this is a tough one, but here's what I would do.
1. Apologize to her, tell her you still want to be friends.
2. Take your mind off of the whole thing, try to get a hobby or do something else.
3. After a little while, try flirting with her, just small flirts, and soon go up to more noticeable ones. If she is responding positively to these things, like when you tell her you think she is beautiful, or that you like her outfit, ask to go out to the movies, or to come hand out and do something she likes at your place. Then, just simply put an arm over her shoulder. See if she reacts. If she lets it slide, or cuddles into you, my work is done, but if she backs away, or looks uncomfortable, then come back to this exact post and I'll tell you what to do.
Positively :
I get you ppl are friends but maybe she needs some time! Maybe she really likes you but couldnt decide this soon!
Negatively :
Mayb she just saw you as a soul sister or friend and not a mate! You either have to apologize and Ask her to be just like b4 or try to convince her or just move on! I know that will hurt!
And...Just think about the times you both really had! Those memories Write them down and speak to her and tell her those memories and say u want to have em till death! if still she aint convinced tell her atleast lets be just like b4 and have these moments!
You have to be passionate! Even if she gets angry donot show ur anger to her!