... the primary lease holder . He is very verbally manipulative and abusive and I'm tonight I was seriously frightened by his aggressiveness towards me . We met two years ago and he hid his mental problems from me and we leased a property together, it was absolutely crazy the situation I found myself in and had to move out as I was to scared to be there , that lease cost me thousands of dollars plus loss of bond of almost $3000, all up as he stayed and refused to go it was roughly 5 - 6000 dollars . Before that in over 20years of rentals history I have never lost a cent in bond . I realise how stupid it was to give him another go but I've always worked so much I've never done the relationship thing so I didn't know what was okay until my life was for the first time in debt and ruined . We have been in this 12 months lease for 2 months and I have 2 jobs here and don't want to have to go through all this s again and leave . I intend to stay and do the right thing with my lease and remove him SAFELY from the house . I can call his sister and he can stay there so he does have somewhere to go , I just don't want this fear and drama and constant worry anymore . Do I need to talk to my real estate first or get an avo and change locks ? What do I do ? Please help, thankyou sorry it's long .
Melanie