i hope it is not too confusing:(this is just one case i am having with one of them)
i m 26
there is this older married guy (abt. 43), and his wife who was good friends with me. Thought of them as parents. they use to talk to me, laugh, ask me a favor or two. now suddenly he is not talking to me, only his wife is talking to me. i wonder what did i do to him. when he does say something to me or even greet me, it is either for me to help with something very important, or he just say a very short and sharp sarcastic comment then walk off, never to speak with me for a long time and so on it goes. now there is this new lady that is a bit older than than me. she seems nice. she and i became great friends. but then the guy and his wife started to make close friendship with this lady and the three of them is now buddy buddy. but i am is still friends with this lady. but whenever this lady has a problem, he is there to help her. he never did this for me. although he tired few time to assist me, i never take his help...then later came up and made sarcastic remark, put his hand on her head..then walk away
but, i don't get this guy's behavior. yes i know he ignores me for reasons i don't know. i am friends with him and his wife. and he is acting even more strange wit all his sarcastic remarks. recently, we all attended a seminar. and during the break, he came up to me making witty remark about me taking enough notes for everyone. i know he is being clever bcuz he always criticize people for taking a lot of notes when he thinks they are not paying attention to the speaker. so i was like "no..only took notes fo me", while he was walking aways with clever smile, then he doubled back, and said "what was that"...so i repeated my statement..then he walk away.
well, lately, he has been asking me for favors...i dont really want to help him...but he has been asking me somethings about work issue...anyway, i try to answer him best i can..just wishing he not talk to me...so the other lady seem upset with him, i dont know why, he is still acting flirty to her, in my view of things now his wife seems quiet towards me.
i dont bother him or anything, so i don't see why he needs to go out of his way to treat me like this
then tonight, he was staring at me from a distance...was so uncomfortable...did not know what to think..actually i wondered if it was bcuz his lady friend was not there..anyway, i greeted his wife and ignored him.
THIS IS NOT A SITUATION AT WORK...I NEVER GAVE ANY SIGNAL OF INTEREST IN HIM EITHER.
ITS NOT LIKE I AM HANGING AROUND HIM.
WHAT DO YOU THINK IS HIS PROBLEM?
HOW CAN HE THINKS I TALK TOO MUCH, AND WE DONT TALK TO EACH OTHER...AT LEAST, I DONT TALK WITH HIM
WE DONT TALK TO EACH OTHER...AT LEAST, I DONT TALK WITH HIM