There are loads of info. on the internet about how to become a charismatic person, but I can't find it anywhere about how we can TAME other charismatic people. They absolutely get on my nerves and now I want to compel them not to come my way! So part of the answer to my question maybe to ask: "how does a charismatic person deal with another charismatic person in order to maintain his/her charisma?" Can two charismatic individuals get on and, if so, how? THANKS! :-)
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I've had many over-the-top acquaintances, coworkers, and even friends throughout the years. You can never fully "tame" them without them wanting to calm down, but you can help mild them down. Whatever you do, DON'T try to over-dominate them. It will just end in an argument and nothing will change. Instead, try nicely suggesting they aren't as great as they believe they are. Point out their flaws, but tell them it's ok to have flaws. We are all human, we all have things we're good at and things we're not. To have flaws is to be alive. In many cases, there is a reason they act so bold and outstanding that perhaps they don't even know. It is your job to discover that reason and gently work it out of them. If you can do this, you're one step closer to guiding them off their pedestal. In the end, they are still human, just as you and I. Make them understand that, but also treat them as that. Hope that helps! Good luck!