Well one of my Bf's Friend She is a Girl Told me she posted some thing to every one Saying: F=ugly
d-= alright and (so on) then is said a+ = Stunning! and a* = shagable She Told me that Tyler my bf Said she is A+ I was quite shocked so then I sent it to him to see what he would say to me but he didn't reply back yet and now My bestfriend phone won't pick up! I need someone to talk to I am so unhappy this is not the first time he has like another girl instead of me? Shall I dump him? I am so sad. But i feel confused as well please help me!
Well I need help What should I do? It is about my boyfriend liking someone else?
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He seems shifty.... Hmm How old or you guys? It sounds like you guys are quite young, if that is the case, then I'd say not to get worked up about it, as boys are immature and they naturally mature later that females. Take it from me, I used to get very upset about guys when I was a young teenager. Turns out they are trying to find their identity, and not neccessariliy going to understand what is expected from them in a relationship, and most wil get turned on at the sight/thought of a female that is "good" in their image.
If you guys are older, about my own age, then I'd say to talk to him about how he feels about you and your relationship. Also, watch for signs that may tell him part from a keeper (somebody who's gonna stick with you), or a "jumper" (will leave you for another when he's bored). One sign would be how he responds to you. If he's in to everything you say and do with him, then there's not much to be worried about. If he's distracted, the worry. Another example is if he's always looking presentable, smelling fresh, etc. then he's looking to attract another. If he "lets himself go a little", he feels comfortable around you, and is looking to stay by your side.
If you are gonna talk to him about this social networking posting, don't go directly to the question "why'd you say this and that?". Warm up to the question by asking him how he feels, what he likes, and watch for signs that he may leave you for another. To be honest, don't get you're hopes up too high, especially since this isn't the first time he's been wayward.
well this is not a good situation to be in for sure i think you caught them friends don't do that and boyfriends don't do that so if you think about it going on for a while at least i would kick them both to the curb she didn't put a stop to it knowing you were his girl friend so that says it all let them go