My friend and I are Lesbian and met recently at work, she no longer works at this place but still wants to be friends. She seemed to be flirting with me all the time but when I told her I felt more for her than friends she assured me that she didn't feel that way about me and more like friends. The problem is she wants to communicate with me all the time and tells me she feels close to me and if I don't call her she tells me to call her and not be afraid to call her. We both feel the closeness but I am getting mixed signals. What is going on?
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Well it depends how you feel if you want to just be friends with her I would act oblivious to any kind of flirting and see how she reacts to this but if you feel that you would like to get together with her than you should definetly give her signals and make the first move. But it sounds to me like she likes you but doesn`t want to admit it.
Just stay the same as her friend to your friend. It's very natural for us girls to act that way of closeness. Don't expect maybe she's in the period of acceptance, that stage is very crucial to her. Maybe she's thinking of the people around you, your friends, family etc. Don't rush, everything will be fine when times comes and assure her that you'll always be there to her no matter what. She is confused right now, be friend to her always.
