I met this wonderful woman. She is 40 and has 18years old twins. She has been with her husband for 19 years. Most of her relationship has been really bad, as she told me. She has tried to leave him but has been unable for many reasons, the strongest one, to be alone with her kids.
When we met she told me about her problems and that she was planing to leave her husband. That is why I accepted to start a relationship with her. She has always denied we are lovers, because she says she is leaving him.
Well everything has been great until las Saturday. She finally got an apartment and now she is facing the reality: she is about to leave the place she has been for the last 19 years. Since that day she asked that she wants a space between us as she needs it. She acts very cold with me when she was actually the sweetest woman I have ever met.
She tells me about her new place, the rules she has to follow but when it comes when she will move in, she says she doesn't know and avoids the subject. She paid already two months in advance ans seems very serious about it.
Now my question is how should I act as I have ever been in a relationship like that, as lovers, and moving to the step she is willing to do? She is moving out of her marriage, not only for me, but that helped her. Her husband told her that he doesn't love her and is ok if she wants to leave but she is the one who has to leave. The kids are ok with it but she blames herself because of the decision she took. She ask me for a space and I will give it to her, but I don't want to lose her. I did put pressure on her and told her she had to take a fast decision, my mistake.
She tells me she loves me but in a very cold way.