So... An old acquaintance asked me to go out to brunch with her. We have known each other for about?... 15 years when we were in our early 20's. We would ask how each other have been doing over the years and stayed in contact through social media/text, but I hadn't seen her for about 6 years. She had asked me to meet up with her about 2 times prior within the last month or 2. The night before we are going to brunch she text me about if we worked somewhere together. I thought it was strange but I said yes because we did. I am so busy with work and hardly go out over the weekends because I am so tired but I made an effort to go meet her. I sit down and after the hi how are you's she began to tell me that she was with her bf last night and she said she was coming to meet me and the bf asked who?? like he knew me. She told me she asked him if me and him slept together. She didn't tell me what he said and I told her I don't even want to know who it is. Me and her grew up in the same small town and she lives there now but moved a long time ago. I have been feeling pretty strange about the situation... Maybe most people wouldn't care but it really bothered me just because I think she made it very akward and didn't have to meet up with me to eat to ask me that. It kind of ruined my weekend because if anything did happen it was 15 years ago and im not close friends with her. Was she right in doing this? It was an uncomfortable meal and I tried to keep the levity up as is my nature, after that and I was happy to leave. Its depressing because I feel like every time I go out with someone I end up regretting it. I may just have high expectations of people and get disappointed. This could have been a phone call, not an activity that I enjoy like brunch. I felt like I was on a reality show.
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