Years ago, I was at a party, and I was hanging out with a male friend and a female friend. The male friend and I were making out, and he dared me to make out with the female friend, so I did. I guess we must have found it interesting because we kicked him out of the room, got naked and started messing around. I'm trying to keep this non graphic. She went down on me for a really long time, but I didn't climax. I couldn't bring myself to go down on her, so I used my fingers on her until she climaxed. We never spoke of it or tried it again. I'm a straight girl, but that experience keeps nagging at me. I have told my husband that I've never had sex with a woman. Does that count as sex, or no? It freaks me out a little to think I may have had sex with another woman. (No offense to anyone.)