I wasn't able to attend my friend's 18th birthday party because I had my art major exam due 2 days after and I wasn't done. I told her my reason and I fervently apologized to her. I had a gift for her but she wasn't able to take it. I'm having my 18th party and I invited her. She told me she doesn't think she can attend because her father is upset with me. I told her my reason for not attending again ,and I also told her to tell her father that I was sorry for not going. Was I wrong to chose my studies over my friend? I still feel bad about not attending her party. But for me, my studies is a way to repay my parents...
Was I wrong for choosing my studies over my friend's party?
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- 3+ months ago by PumpkinSp...
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- party, birthday, friend, major, exam, relationship, decision
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I don't think you were wrong to choose your studies over your friend's party because you see your studies as a way to repay your parents and that is clearly very important to you. Perhaps you should go to her father and apologise for not being able to be there in person and explain why you couldn't be there and explain your reason for not being there.
You were NOT wrong, If she is your real friend then she would understand. Her father no longer has any athority over her. If she was a real friend she should come to your party. You would need to understand that because you didnt come to her party she might not come to yours. You two should talk about it though.
Hoped I helped.