(Now before u judge me u have no idea what I've been through for me to make the mistakes I've made.) Ok so this guy I been talking to for almost 3 months. I broke it off with him because he began to loose interest by not responding to me. He use to but it seemed like he changed after I confessed who I really was when I lied about my identity in the beginning he excepted me but he didn't really seem to care anymore later on. So this what I told him " By the time u get this message ur number will already have been block, so there is no use in replying. The girl in the pic isn't me or the stories that I told u about is a lie. The girl I show u is my roommate and she agreed to let me use her photo and poems and her life story if I payed her money. And the first girl I lied to u about was her sis not mine. Y I did it? I don't feel that I owe u an explanation. It won't take long for me to forget u like, I'm sure it won't take long for u you to forget me. So thanks and have a nice life. :-* " that's what I told him because I wanted him to be just as upset as I was. When I first lied to him he was mad. But this time I was lying to him that I wasn't really who I was when I am who I am. I was friends with him on Facebook and I looked at his status and he was talking about a football game. Was I wasting my time with him?
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You were probably wasting HIS time. I'm sorry but he has a right to be mad if he found out that you weren't who you said you were haha. If someone did that to me I would be beyond pissed and would not want anything to do with you honestly. Just don't try to lead people on! Sorry if I was being harsh but I had to tell the truth haha.
I'm sorry you felt you had to live a lie, but these things always come back to bite us. If you've learned anything from it and would be unlikely to do it again, then at least take that positive out of it.
Also, wouldn't you rather someone want you for who you are, than for an assumed identity. I'm sure there are things to like or love about you if you let someone have the chance to.
I feel like crap the only reason I lied is because my life was ruined by this guy by him spreading rumors and I couldn't trust anyone. I got harassed everyday cuz of it. And every time I trusted a guy they would be my heart. He was the only one who made me forget about my problems. I'm emotional damaged. So there is no way I could get him back?