... guy friends house and we got super high and I was like half asleep and he was laying down next to me and I wanted to cuddle so we did and when I was like way out of it and almost asleep and day dreaming about my crush I felt someone start to touch my down there and finger me but I was too high and asleep to figure out what was happening and I remember thinking I was dreaming when I felt someone open my legs and shove inside me around I don't even remember how many times... I just remember getting fully awake from the pain. (I was a virgin.) and then opening my eyes for the first time and see him staring back at me, I ran to the bathroom and I was bleeding.. He says I was dreaming but I don't think so.
Was I raped? Is it my fault? Was should I do..?
Please someone help me....? :/
Was I raped? I feel like its my fault but people say it wasn't. About 2 weeks ago I was at my good?
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- 3+ months ago by confusedt...
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Added 3+ months ago:
*at my good friends house that was a guy
Responses (8)
You live & you learn, super high will be your downfall, but hey you slept with him cuddled & were super high, when people get high it shuts off the human part of them and they go with their animal urges, shouldnt have gotten high, question is how close you are with this kid & whether or not your willing to put him through that hell
I can't really be sure if it is a troll question or not. I'll go with an answer anyway.
Yes you were! I'm really sorry to hear this :( but maybe you should call somebody and report him? What was done to you was not right and he has to pay for this.
No it was not your fault. You were high which was a mistake but we tend to trust our friends and you had no idea, right? Don't blame yourself for what happened but don't just be silent about it. Tell some people you trust about what has happened to you and maybe seek some help like therapy or whatever.
I hope you feel better soon!
what is it with people and saying (this is a troll question) it gets annoying?
based on what you've said i think you were. if you were dreaming about it then you wouldn't have been bleeding when you went to the bathroom. i think you should talk to your mother first and concider pressing charges. the sooner this is delt with the better. chances are that you aren't his first victim and he'll probably do it again.
this is not your fault.
It's definately rape and he most certainly, took advantage of you. You surely didn't dream it and if didn't want to take advantage of you. Why did he say that you dreamt it? Why the need to lie? Why can't he just own up? Most jerks can't...
Also, if someone's drunk then it is considered rape. I don't if you can proove it and stuff...but sadly, he did take advantage of the situation.
Im not sure if that was a totally "rape" cause 1st. he is your good guy friend as what you have said and seems like you want it too.. well maybe just maybe that's not a "rape" that was a Hmmm.. sex I think? and Its not your fault.. it's his fault. because he can't prevent or control the temptation that's why he did it. all you need to do is ask him. :) so that things will be all cleared. and let's thank god cause your not pregnant. :D
Honey, it is your fault. You shouldn't have went to your "guy friends" house and got drunk there, really drunk. Your friends clearly took advantage of you, you need to do something about it, report it at the police, even if you didn't think it was rape, if you were unaware, still go report it, I mean, they did it against your will. You didn't tell them do that to you, so yes, it is rape.
its not your fault hun, you wasnt yourself so therefore you was taken advantage of. its rape!
Absolutely correct